Bride Forbids Fiancé's Twin Sister from Giving a Speech at Their Wedding: 'I Don't Trust Her'

Mar. 15, 2025

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However, there has recently been “a falling-out” between the two siblings after Jake requested access to family funds that were promised to him. According to the bride, Rosa “berated” Jake over his push to get his share of the money but eventually “begrudgingly” agreed to give Jake a significantly lower amount to “keep the peace.”

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Many commenters told the bride she has every right to block her future sister-in-law from giving a speech due to her behavior over the money. “If Rosa can’t respect Jake, she doesn’t deserve a mic atyourwedding,” one person wrote.

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Still, others questioned the family situation that the bride will be stepping into once she is married.

“NTA [not the a——] for banning her from speaking, but are you sure you want to get into this family? His sister refuses to give him money he is owed, and Jake meekly goes along with her? He will not take your side if she turns on you,” someone wrote.

In response, the bride explained that Jake plans to reduce his contact with his twin sister after the wedding. But in the meantime, she said, Jake is “worried that if we change our existing plans to take away Rosa’s speaking role that it’ll cause her to cause drama that could lead to people on his side dropping out of the wedding — and family means a lot to Jake.”

A few commenters argued that Jake should be the one to decide whether or not his sister gets to give a speech at his wedding.

“It’s your husband’s decision, not yours,” one person wrote, while another said, “This very much his day as it is yours. He is not telling you what to do with your aspects of the wedding ie bridesmaids or maid of honor. Leave well enough alone.”

source: people.com