Kristin Davis Breaks Down Discussing the Late Willie Garson in theSex and the CityPilot: 'So Young and So Beautiful'

Mar. 15, 2025

Willie Garson and Kristin Davis in the ’90s.Photo:Hbo/Darren Star Productions/Kobal/Shutterstock; Ron Galella, Ltd./Ron Galella Collection via Getty

Willie Garson Sex and The City; Kristin Davis

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Kristin Daviswas moved to tears watching the lateWillie Garsonin the very first episode ofSex and the City.

On the premiere episode of her new iHeartRadio rewatch podcastAre You a Charlotte?, the actress took deep dive into the iconic HBO show’s 1998 pilot, sharing memories and reactions after watching it for the first time in decades.

Davis, 59, got particularly emotional talking about Garson’s first scene in the series, in which his character, Stanford Blatch, talks relationships withSarah Jessica Parker’s Carrie Bradshaw over lunch.

“Oh my God. I forgot Willie,” Davis said of the actor, who died in 2021 at the age of 57. “Oh my God. When Willie comes on the screen — I might cry. I’m sorry.”

Willie Garson and Sarah Jessica Parker in ‘Sex and the City’ in the ’90s.Craig Blankenhorn/Hbo/Darren Star Prods./Kobal/REX/Shutterstock

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“You know, he’s so young, and he’s so beautiful. And I really — I’d forgotten, you know?” Davis continued, fighting back tears. “I had to stop when I was watching it. I was like, ‘Oh my God. We were just little, little babies,’ you know? And he’s so funny, and their relationship is so great. And they had been friends for so long, so I love it that it’s on camera.”

As Davis noted, like their fictionalSex and the Citycounterparts, Parker and Garson where close friends for more than 30 years. In a2021 Instagram post, Parker wrotethat the “gravity” and “anguish” of Garson’s death from pancreatic cancer had been “unbearable.”

OnAre You a Charlotte?, Davis also recalled how Garson helped her get over her nerves during her audition forSex and the City.

“Willie Garson was there, and I knew Willie already. I had met Willie in Vancouver probably the year before, and I loved him so much. So, thank God he was there because I had to wait for hours before I could go in and read,” she explained. “I’m sitting on a counter at this point, and Willie is sitting up there with me. We’re there for so long that, like, I’d be nervous, and then I’d get unnervous. And then Willie would tell me a funny story, made me laugh, and I’d be unnervous. And then I’d get nervous again.”

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Kristin Davis in ‘Sex and the City’ in 1999.Paramount Pictures/Getty

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Elsewhere in the podcast, Davis revealed how she really feels aboutSex and the City’s first episode, which is famously different from the glossy, fashion-forward romp the show would ultimately evolve into.

“I haven’t seen the pilot in probably, I mean, at least 20 years, maybe more because I was never a fan of the pilot,” she admitted.

“I knew in my gut that that the show was, like, a living, breathing thing that we should do and that I should be on it as well as everyone else,” Davis explained. But, she continued, “Part of my response to the pilot back then was that it didn’t seem polished. It didn’t seem smooth. It seemed kind of choppy and hectic. But I also feel my personal theory on pilots in general is that if they’re too good, if the pilot is too formed, the show might not be good.”

“What you want in a pilot is like a spark, like asomething, like a fissure, like an energy,” Davis said. “And then the show can run on that, and you can form it into something like clay, then you can form it into something if you have the right creative people and if you have a network who will allow you to form it, which luckily we did in HBO.”

Davis also gave her assessment of her own performance as Charlotte York, the show’s most conservative character. “First of all, I seem like I’m 25 years old,” she said. “And second of all, I seem like I’ve literally never been to Manhattan. Like, everyone else is so much more sophisticated than me.”

Kristin Davis, Sarah Jessica Parker, Cynthia Nixon and Kim Cattrall in 1999.HBO

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“It’s very clear that I’m on a different trajectory, and you do kind of think like, ‘How did Charlotte get to be friends with these girls?’ ” she said. “I always thought that was weird through the years when people would bring that up to me. Like, ‘Why are you friends with them?’ I’d be like, ‘Why wouldn’t I be friends with them?’ Right? They’re fascinating.”

“And then to have Charlotte be kind of this, looking for love, you know, naive character, which obviously I knew she was, it is different. It is definitely different,” she added. “But in my gut, I felt like it was really important to have this other character.”

Watching her character try to “fit in” with Carrie, Miranda and Samantha in the pilot, Davis said, was “kind of heartbreaking in a certain way.”

“But, also, that is kind of Charlotte,” she said. “She wants to be loved. She wants to find love. She wants to have love with her girlfriends. She wants to connect.”

source: people.com